Husband flirting with divorced friend?
My husband made friends with a co worker, all 3 of us work together, although I’m not there that much becasue it isn’t my main job. He had been helping her move, hugging her, posing for pics, playing golf with her ex husband, and even had a secret handshake only the two of them know (no, we are not in junior high) He did all this without telling me about any of it, and when I was around he would stay away from her, I almost never even saw them talking to each other, but then i find out when i’m not around he’s a totally different person. Who’s wrong here, him for behaving this way or me for being upset?
He says he doesn’t have any idea at all why he behaves this way, or why he hides it. Am I wrong to think that this lady is vulnerable and all this has crossed a line? I mean, for god’s sake, a secret handshake? If that’s not outright flirting with another woman then I don’t know what is!
he isl sending out the wrong signals, which it what I think is wrong here
I think that if he is acting differently when he is around her and you at the same time, it may be a bad sign- not that he is doing anything, perhaps it is just a crush and he sub-conciously isnt’ ready to admit it to himself OR you. You are not in the wrong for feeling this way, I would be VERY jealous if I were in this situation. If you have any control over if, when, & where he sees her (meaning if there’s a way you can be present) then go for it. Then there will be no opportunity for him to be alone with her. I’d tell him you feel he’s sending out signals, and her being just divorced, probably kind of likes the attention. She is most-likley vulnerable. Just talk it out with your hubby. Best of luck to you!
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