Guys/ How hard is it for you to turn down a beautiful women when you are in a relationship?
Ok this Tiger Woods thing has me thinking and Stephen A Smith on CNN just pointed out something to me, it is hard for guys to turn down beautiful women even when you are committed. Even just everyday guys that aren’t famous have a hard time. I can’t even picture famous sports stars and the amount of girls that come at them. I just want some honesty from other guys about how hard it is to turn down girls. I know it is hard for me so me and a friend of mine that is a girl want to know.
Good question, I think it must be hard? But not impossible. It’s just most men (and a lot of women, in the opposite situation) don’t make the effort.
My longest relationship was 2.5 years and I never came close to cheating because I never got in the situation to begin with where I had to turn down an attractive guy because I never really talked to them much and I was so proud of my boyfriend and always thinking of him that it wasn’t an issue. Now I’m single though I have a lot less self-control but I’m hoping in my next relationship I can get it back? I just didn’t think about it though and didn’t want to be out with other men when I had a partner, so I reckon that’s what somebody committed is like? Though, that was only 2 years so I can believe after 20 it’s completely different.
I also guess it depends how much the girl is throwing herself at the man, as to how hard it is to turn down. But IMO saying “sorry, I’m married” then walking away before being tempted more should be easy….
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